Ok, so by now you’re probably all wondering what has been going on with the dating situation, right? Unless of course you watch my web show on Thursday nights then you know a little about whats been going on. I have been a bad blogger and neglecting you all the details of the drama that has been unfolding. Ok, so there really hasn’t been any juicy drama but it sounded good right? When I left off last, I had had a lunch date with guy dubbed Match 1. It was a good date, and he even texted me right after.
Yeah. Ok. Well the text messages didn’t stop. At all. He has been text messaging me every day, several times a day. Doesn’t seem so bad, right? Well on Wednesday he texted me “Miss you.” Umm…yeah, that’s sweet and all except we’ve only met once. How can you possibly “miss me?” Anyways, i decided to go to his house after work on Wednesday and we hung out for just a little bit. Nothing happened except for kissing. His house however was covered with beer bottles and had a beer pong table set up. Not exactly a turn on. Oh and he thought it was appropriate to mention to me that he owed his friend $3000 and needed to get it by the next day. So by Thursday night during my show I was confused, skeptical, and weary. I obviously have some major trust issues now to begin with but this guy is either a) really really in to me or b) he’s super needy with some over the top obsessive tendencies. Either way I’m not really sure I’m all that into him.
But, I decide to give him another week. We were supposed to hang out on Saturday but lucky for me he didn’t call me or text me rather until later in the evening and by that time, I wasn’t going anywhere. That’s the other thing…texting. So impersonal. Its almost like he’s having a relationship with my phone, c’mon! Now onto Sunday, Valentines day. As you know from the post I wrote yesterday, I was busy. He texted me “Happy vday” while I was at Disney On Ice. I responded to him later on when I got home and told him I had also gone to the Museum. He responded with a “Nobody asked me if i wanted to go.” To which i replied, “your right nobody did.” What would make you think I would invite you to go with me and my son somewhere after I have only met you twice? Its been one week dude, one week. I get a few more stupid texts about hanging out and some BS like that. But later on, I get a text that says “u never said happy vday back 
“ Yup. That’s what he texted. Just like a chick. So i apologized and told him i was at the show when he texted me and i said happy vday. He replies to me with “Forget it means nothing now.” Ummm….do you have a vagina? Seriously? You are a man, suck it up.
So you would think that maybe it would end there but oh no it doesn’t. I have already told him that i don’t want to hang out and he continues to text asking me if I wanna hang out. He asked me about this weekend and I told him I was going away for the weekend and he had the nerve to ask me if i was going with another guy. The nerve okay. When i told him no he told me to get a sitter for tonight and again I said the magic word. No. Then i get a text with a broken heart symbol.
Guy, you’re heart is not broken, you are just CRAZY!
Since this guy has red flags flying high all over the place to me, so I’m gonna go ahead and nix the idea of giving him another week. He would end up smothering me to death and I’m already suffocating in a sea of text messages. He is like scary crazy obsessive. Yikes!
P.S. oh and Match 2 never called, so no date with him either.
About Blondie
Oh yeah time to nip that one in the bud. It’s not good when they act more female than we do…been there done that. Do what I did and pick out a young one and train him right. LOL
Geez… what luck you have..hang in there darlin’ the right one will come, I promise. This guy sounds like a peice of work….
BLAH!!!!! Stay away from that one! ???? WEIRDO! Keep the faith!
Uh oh! Want a man’s perspective? No? Ill give it anyways…lol. He is too needy for you. You should give him a text back saying… “hit the road”…lol
Shane
http://www.calgarydaddy.com
Ummm…wow. That guy seriously has issues or something and way too clingy for that early…or ever.
I REALLY want to sing some 90′s boy band kareoke to help cheer you up after all this texting craziness! I think some Backstreet Boys would do the trick, don’t you?
Seriously? Um Ok I can understand the first couple. But to continue shows that he has issues and that is what you DO NOT need! You need a man that is confident with himself and is not THAT needy! Sorry hon but remember the option to move here and marry me are always open! LOL
Good to know you see the red flags-if those were ignored…holy hell! Keep with it-there really are good guys out there. Maybe try e-harmony.com. I’ve had a few friends who have had major luck with that site.
Wow, those aren’t just flags, they are flares, fireworks, and perhaps a marching band warning you off. Run, don’t walk, to the nearest exit… FAST
Okay… as much as I am sorry to hear this… I did (no I’m not gonna say it) think it was gonna be one of those clingy dudes that has more estrogen than he should have…
I am with Gena, but since she did not offer to make me one of her sister wives, I am going to extend the offer to come here and be my sister-wife
Lots of men here in Los Angeles and who knows, a few cabana boys might be fun to have around the compound.
Most importantly – don’t give up – keep putting out what you want to get back (vibes not sex).
XXOO
..is it really such ‘slim pickins’ out there ??
LOL. I laughed at when you asked if he had a vagina. I text my wife a lot since I am out of towm but that is my wife of 9 yrs and plus I am out of town for the week. Tell this guy to grow and set and then to take a hike. He sounds way to needy. Good Luck!!
There are a lot of good and normal guys out there, this one is irritating. Maybe you can block his number or better yet tell him to stop in a nice way. Good luck with that!
Holy shit! I was going to say RUN RUN RUN FAR AWAY but looks like you already know that.
maybe you should just date women.
crazy! People are so weird.
LMAO this so reminds me of that movie He’s Not into you. LOVE YOU!
Kas
I would so much rather talk to someone than text them.
I would definitely take it slow
Yea I would say this one is a big NO NO! Seems like he is really needy and REALLY needs to grow up!
Seriously, it sounds like he has no balls whatsoever! I’ve met guys who text, but not like THAT unless they are mutually text-addicted.
Bu-bye, wussy boy! I don’t think you need to give him anymore time. I think you should have your phone tell him to stop texting, you’re not interested!
smart to get rid of him. sorry it has been so sucky.
definitely do not give him another week. that would annoy the hell out of me. I can’t believe you put up with it that long without getting more nasty in your responses. I would have been texting swear words back
FREAK Y
“Ummm….do you have a vagina?”!!!!!
WUSSY FREAK BOY.
OMG. TELL ME this is not the dude that lives across the street from you.